The
Abortion
Decision
Let me give you the only legitimate advice anyone can give you to help you make your decision.
Only you can make the decision!
Only you can know it the decision is right, because it has to be right for you.
You are pregnant and it's the last thing in world you want and not at all what you expected at this point in your life. Maybe you were careless or maybe you took all the precautions anyone could or maybe something worse. It really doesn't matter. It really isn't important to know how you got pregnant. What is important is, how you feel about it.
The abortion is the same. I mean, it doesn't matter why you feel the way you do about it. If you have serious doubts about an abortion, it's not for you. If you are sure you don't want to go through the pregnancy and take the physical and emotional risks, abortion is for you. If you are not sure of anything, ah, that's another story.
If you can't make up your mind, you should consider that abortion may not be the best alternative. A little doubt is a natural thing. I'm talking about being really caught in the middle. Whatever you do, there are some things you should never never do. Like:
—Don't get sucked into one of those abortion options counseling
centers. They will hound you and heap guilt on you and pound
on you until they break down you spirit and force you to wait until
it is too late. Then, they will abandon you and look down
their noses at you.
— Don't listen to friends or family with strong opinions on
the subject. When the dust settles, you and only you, have
to live with your decision. Don't try to please anyone.
It's tough in your state of mind, but you have to make the decision
that is right for you, not them.
—Don't wait. Make your decision quickly. It's
a hard thing to do, but the longer you wait, the fewer options you
have. Take a day (no more that 1 day) and make your decision.
A favorite tactic of those who don't want you to have a choice is
to delay, ask you to wait a few days, find excuses for you to delay
a little longer and finally tell you, "Tough luck, honey.
It's too late!"
Alright, so I can't help you make the decision. Neither can anyone else. They will only confuse you. Some with the best of intentions and some with worst of intentions, but they surely will add to your confusion. If you become too confused and too torn on the decision making, you surely will have an unwanted child. How much will that child suffer, only you can imagine.
There are some other important sites you should visit such as the Abortion Clinic Guide where you can find a current list of abortion doctors and abortion clinics. You can also visit Abortion Doctors Lookup even though it has a similar list with less information.
doctors & clinics list